Entretien

• Racontez-nous un peu plus sur vous, si vous devriez choisir quelque chose que vous voudriez que les autres sachent absolument sur vous que serait-elle?
  If you mess with my home, my loved ones, or me I will absolutely end you in the worst ways. I’m not an aggressive person, but I will absolutely fight back with the fire of a thousand hells.
• Quels sont vos passe-temps, qu'est-ce que vous aimez faire dans votre temps libre?
  Cook, eat, care for my plants, sew, wood-work, sex, language and linguistics, art.
• Quel est ‘L'effort Supplémentaire’ que vous faites dans votre vie?
  I’m always friendly and outgoing. I engage people in very active listening. It always gets noticed that I just invest very deeply in being kind and listening to everyone including strangers.
• Que faites-vous pour vous amuser?
  Cook, smoke cannabis, eat, have long philosophical debates about random stuff, feed my loved ones and friends, commune with my plant babies, explore the limits of fantasy recreation.
• Racontez-nous la meilleure expérience que vous avez jamais eue.
  My greatest life experience is loving two wonderful people that love me back just as much. <3
• Qu'est-ce qui vous distingue de toutes les autres personnes que vous connaissez?
  My very very long beard, and my charismatic personality. I am QUITE gregarious.
• Que diriez-vous sont vos plus grands attributs et/ou spécialité/s/?
  Loyalty and the ability to communicate. I studied linguistics in my second undergrad, so language is my lady-jam!
• Quelle est votre «Niche»?
  Nurturing yet sadistic Daddy.
• À quelle fréquence voyagiez-vous? Préférez-vous voyager ou êtes-vous plutôt casanier?
  My home is my nest. I always say the second best day of a trip is the day I sleep in my own bed again. I do travel often, and love to. I’m most often flying to the west coast and Salt Lake City, but willing to discuss travel destinations anywhere. I hold a valid passport. I don’t regularly welcome people into my home space, so for meeting it’s 99.9% of the time at a garden or coffee shop. So yes. Ha ha!
• Quel régime alimentaire et de remise en forme suivez-vous?
  I am VERY food-motivated. I eat a lot of from-scratch food cuz I am an excellent cook as well as a major food-lover. I walk regularly, and try to spend my days on my feet. I’m not a fitness nutter cuz I love food too much and I don’t really find that need to even be associated with the toxic gym crew.
• Quelles sont les particularités de votre mode de vie qui fait de vous la personne que vous êtes?
  I’m first and foremost queer. Nothing about me fits the stereotypical models society presents as “normal.” I don’t wear deodorant, I am a kitchen witch in spiritual practice. All of that said I am also an excellent cameleon. I can talk the talk of a linguistics professor, a religion professor, clergy, pervert, pig, and anything else you can imagine. I’m the kind of person that you can take as a date to the opera, to your grand parents’ 50th wedding celebration, and then the unmentionable things that happen between the sheets become reality later that night.
• Que voudriez-vous que vos lecteurs sashent sur vous qui est unique et même un peu personnel?
  I have spent 15 years working in the Het-cetera community as a presenter, pro-dom, and bootblack. That gives me a very special skill set to make a LOT of fantasies become realities because I have a deep understanding of risks and rewards for ALL genders. This also brings me to a recent exploration into how I could be open to being with a woman for the first time. Tee hee. I truly think the sky is the limit.
• Si nous nous asseyions sur la plage à boire du vin et à déguster des gourmandises juste toi et moi, que me dirais-tu de toi-même et de ta vie?
  To be very honest this is almost impossible for me to answer. I find myself going down all sorts of personal rabbit hole stories depending on where the person(s) I’m with inspire me to talk about. Every conversation I have is tailored to the experiences I’m having at that very moment, but I guarantee I have some kind of “old man” story I will attach along with it!
• Qu'est-ce que les autres devraient absolument savoir sur vous?
  Two things. One: I am NOT shy about sex and have ZERO boundaries of what is allowed to be discussed in public. Therefore I need to know if you are uncomfortable with me saying things like butt-sex in line at the local coffee shop. Two: I am a very heavy cannabis user, and make no excuses. I have ZERO tolerance for shaming perspectives and language around cannabis use. Naturally medicating the self how a person finds works best for them is a hill I will die on.
• Qu'est-ce que vous aimez le plus chez vous?
  I love my ability to reclaim my past. I’m unreligious and agnostic, but I LOVE to keep mystical rituals and routines. I have all kinds of myths I love and symbols of deities both real-world and otherwise that fuel my sense of joy and magick in the world that used to be so cruelly regulated by hateful Xtianity. I am HIGHLY SPIRITUAL and yet very very unreligious. Also all of this is packed with a bible and theology degree from a Baptist University. Reclamation is restorative!
• Quelles sont les 5 choses dont vous ne pouvez pas vous passer?
  My two Loves, my plant babies (yes I am aware this is more than 5 by themselves!), a bidet, my own kitchen. These are not negotiable, not extractable from my life, and threatening them WILL get you on a very very short list of people I will do anything to ruin. What?!?! I’m a textbook Scorpio! ;-)